Unschooling emphasizes free, undirected play as a major component of children's education.
Unschooling is an informal learning that advocates learner-chosen activities as a primary means for learning. Unschooling students learn through their natural life experiences including play, household
 responsibilities, personal interests and curiosity, internships and 
work experience, travel, books, elective classes, family, mentors, and social interaction.
 Unschooling encourages exploration of activities initiated by the 
children themselves, believing that the more personal learning is, the 
more meaningful, well-understood and therefore useful it is to the 
child. While courses may occasionally be taken, unschooling questions 
the usefulness of standard curricula, conventional grading methods, and other features of traditional schooling in the education of each unique child.
The term "unschooling" was coined in the 1970s and used by educator John Holt, widely regarded as the father of unschooling. While often considered a subset of homeschooling
 and homeschooling has been subject to widespread public debate, little 
media attention has been given to unschooling in particular. 
Critics of unschooling see it as an extreme educational 
philosophy, with concerns that unschooled children will lack the social 
skills, structure, and motivation of their schooled peers, while 
proponents of unschooling say exactly the opposite is true: 
self-directed education in a natural environment better equips a child 
to handle the "real world."
History
The term "unschooling" probably derives from Ivan Illich's term "deschooling", and was popularized through John Holt's newsletter Growing Without Schooling. In an early essay, Holt contrasted the two terms:
GWS will say 'unschooling' when we mean taking children out of school, and 'deschooling' when we mean changing the laws to make schools non-compulsory...
At this point the term was equivalent with "home schooling" (itself a neologism).
 Subsequently, home schoolers began to differentiate between various 
educational philosophies within home schooling. The term "unschooling" 
became used as a contrast to versions of home schooling that were 
perceived as politically and pedagogically "school-like," using 
textbooks and exercises at home, the same way they would be used at 
school. In 2003, in Holt's book Teach Your Own (originally published in 1981) Pat Farenga, co-author of the new edition, provided a definition:
When pressed, I define unschooling as allowing children as much freedom to learn in the world as their parents can comfortably bear.
In the same passage Holt stated that he was not entirely comfortable 
with this term, and that he would have preferred the term "living".  
Holt's use of the term emphasizes learning as a natural process, 
integrated into the spaces and activities of everyday life, and not 
benefiting from adult manipulation. It follows closely on the themes of 
educational philosophies proposed by Jean-Jacques Rousseau, Jiddu Krishnamurti, Paul Goodman, and A.S. Neill.
After Holt's death a range of unschooling practitioners and observers defined the term in various ways. For instance, the Freechild Project defines unschooling as:
the process of learning through life, without formalized or institutionalized classrooms or schoolwork.
New Mexico homeschooling parent Sandra Dodd
 proposed the term "Radical Unschooling" to emphasize the complete 
rejection of any distinction between educational and non-educational 
activities.
 Radical Unschooling emphasizes that unschooling is a non-coercive, 
cooperative practice, and seeks to promote those values in all areas of 
life. These usages share an opposition to traditional schooling 
techniques and the social construction of schools. Most emphasize the 
integration of learning into the everyday life of the family and wider 
community. Points of disagreement include whether unschooling is 
primarily defined by the initiative of the learner and their control 
over the curriculum, or by the techniques, methods, and spaces being 
used.
Dr Peter Gray suggested the term self-directed education, which has fewer negative connotations.
Motivations
Unschoolers question schools for lessening the parent/child bond and 
reducing family time and creating atmospheres of fear, or atmospheres 
that are not conducive for learning and may not even correspond with 
later success.
Often those in school have a community consisting mainly of a 
peer group, of which the parent has little influence and even knowledge.
 Unschoolers may have time to share a role in their greater community, 
therefore relating more to older and younger individuals and finding 
their place within more diverse groups of people. Parents of school 
children also have little say regarding who their instructors and 
teachers are, whereas parents of unschoolers may be more involved in the
 selection of the coaches or mentors their children work with and with 
whom they build lasting and ongoing relationships.
According to unschooling pioneer John Holt,
 child-led learning is more efficient and respectful of children's time,
 takes advantage of their interests, and allows deeper exploration of 
subjects than what is possible in conventional education.
- "...the anxiety children feel at constantly being tested, their fear of failure, punishment, and disgrace, severely reduces their ability both to perceive and to remember, and drives them away from the material being studied into strategies for fooling teachers into thinking they know what they really don't know."
Others point out that some schools can be non-coercive and 
cooperative, in a manner consistent with the philosophies behind 
unschooling. Sudbury model
 schools are non-coercive, non-indoctrinative, cooperative, 
democratically run partnerships between children and adults, including 
full parents' partnership, where learning is individualized and 
child-led, and complements home education.
Teaching methods / philosophy
Children are natural learners
A
 fundamental premise of unschooling is that curiosity is innate and that
 children want to learn. From this an argument can be made that 
institutionalizing children in a so-called "one size fits all" or 
"factory model" school
 is an inefficient use of the children's time, because it requires each 
child to learn specific subject matter in a particular manner, at a 
particular pace, and at a specific time regardless of that individual's 
present or future needs, interests, goals, or any pre-existing knowledge
 they might have about the topic.
Many unschoolers believe that opportunities for valuable 
hands-on, community-based, spontaneous, and real-world experiences may 
be missed when educational opportunities are limited to, or dominated 
by, those inside a school building.
Learning styles
Unschoolers note that psychologists have documented many differences between children in the way they learn, and assert that unschooling is better equipped to adapt to these differences.
People vary in their "learning styles",
 that is, the preference in how they acquire new information. However, 
research has demonstrated that this preference is not related to 
increased learning or improved performance.
 Students have different learning needs. In a traditional school 
setting, teachers seldom evaluate an individual student differently from
 other students, and while teachers often use different methods, this is
 sometimes haphazard and not always with regard to an individual 
student.
Developmental differences
Developmental
 psychologists note that just as children reach growth milestones at 
different ages from each other, children are also prepared to learn 
different things at different ages.
 Just as some children learn to walk during a normal range of eight to 
fifteen months, and begin to talk across an even larger range, 
unschoolers assert that they are also ready and able to read, for 
example, at different ages, girls usually earlier, boys later. In fact, 
experts have discovered that natural learning produces far greater 
changes in behavior than do traditional learning methods, though not 
necessarily an increase in the amount of information learned. Traditional education
 requires all children to begin reading at the same time and do 
multiplication at the same time; unschoolers believe that some children 
cannot help but be bored because this was something that they had been 
ready to learn earlier, and even worse, some children cannot help but 
fail, because they are not yet ready for this new information being 
taught.
Essential body of knowledge
Unschoolers sometimes state that learning any specific subject is less important than learning how to learn. They assert, in the words of Holt:
Since we can't know what knowledge will be most needed in the future, it is senseless to try to teach it in advance. Instead, we should try to turn out people who love learning so much and learn so well that they will be able to learn whatever must be learned.
It is asserted that this ability to learn on their own makes it more 
likely that later, when these children are adults, they can continue to 
learn what they need to know to meet newly emerging needs, interests, 
and goals; and that they can return to any subject that they feel was not sufficiently covered or learn a completely new subject.
Many unschoolers disagree that there is a particular body of 
knowledge that every person, regardless of the life they lead, needs to 
possess.
  Unschoolers argue that, in the words of John Holt,  "If children are 
given access to enough of the world, they will see clearly enough what 
things are truly important to themselves and to others, and they will 
make for themselves a better path into that world than anyone else could
 make for them."
The role of parents
Parents
 of unschoolers provide resources, support, guidance, information, and 
advice to facilitate experiences that aid their children in accessing, 
navigating, and making sense of the world.
  Common parental activities include sharing interesting books, 
articles, and activities with their children, helping them find 
knowledgeable people to explore an interest with (anyone from physics 
professors to automotive mechanics), and helping them set goals and 
figure out what they need to do to meet their goals. Unschooling's 
interest-based nature does not mean that it is a "hands off" approach to
 education. Parents tend to involve themselves, especially with younger 
children (older children, unless new to unschooling, often need less 
help finding resources and making and carrying out plans).
Paradigm shift
Unschooling opposes many aspects of what the dominant culture insists are true, and it may be impossible to fully understand the unschooling philosophy of education without both active participation and a major paradigm shift. The cognitive dissonance
 that frequently accompanies this paradigm shift is uncomfortable. New 
unschoolers are advised that they should not expect to understand the 
unschooling philosophy at first.
 Not only are there many commonplace assumptions about education, there 
are many unspoken and unwritten expectations. One step towards 
overcoming the necessary paradigm shift is accepting that, "what we do 
is nowhere near as important as why we do it."
Home education
Unschooling
 is a form of home education, which is the education of children at home
 rather than in a school. Home education is often considered synonymous 
with homeschooling.
Unschooling contrasts with other forms of home education in that the student's education is not directed by a teacher and curriculum.
  Unschooling is a real-world implementation of "The Open Classroom" 
methods promoted in the late 1960s and early 1970s, without the school, 
classrooms or grades.  Parents who unschool their children act as 
facilitators, providing a range of resources, helping their children 
access, navigate, and make sense of the world, and aiding them in making
 and implementing goals and plans for both the distant and immediate 
future. Unschooling expands from children's natural curiosity as an extension of their interests, concerns, needs, goals, and plans.
Socialization
Concerns
 about socialization can be a factor in the decision to unschool. Some 
unschoolers believe that conditions in conventional schools, such as age segregation, the ratio of children to adults, or the amount of time spent sitting, are not conducive to proper education.
Unschooling is claimed to broaden the diversity of people or 
places an unschooler may be exposed to. Unschoolers may be more mature 
than their schooled peers on average, and some believe this is a result of the wide range of people they have the opportunity to interact with.
  Opportunities for unschoolers to meet and interact with other 
unschoolers has increased in recent years, allowing unschoolers to have 
interactions with other children with similar experiences.
Branches of unschooling
- Worldschooling, in which families travel around the world and learn through traveling and experiencing other cultures.
- Project-based homeschooling, which holds that students acquire a deeper knowledge through active exploration of real-world challenges, problems and projects that they can do in their own time.
Complementary philosophies
Some unschooling families may incorporate the following philosophies into their lifestyles. 
- Unconditional Parenting and Punished by Rewards, parenting and education books by Alfie Kohn.
- The Continuum Concept, Attachment Parenting, and Attachment Theory, theories and practices attempting to encourage the child's development.
- Voluntaryism: the idea that all forms of human association should be voluntary, as far as possible. Consequently, voluntaryism opposes the initiation of aggressive force or coercion.
Other forms of alternative education
Many other forms of alternative education
 also place a great deal of importance on student control of learning, 
albeit not necessarily of the individual learner. This includes free democratic schools, like the Sudbury school, Stonesoup School and "open learning" virtual universities.
General criticisms
Questions about the merits of unschooling raise concerns on its 
absence of the following qualities, compared to established systems:
- Socialization – schools provide a ready-made group of peers, but unschooled children need other ways to make friends in their age group.
- Isolation – a child might not encounter people of other cultures, worldviews, and socioeconomic groups if they are not enrolled in a school. Of course, a school is not necessarily a place that is guaranteed to provide such a range of experiences, either.
- Qualifications – some parents may not have the skills required to guide and advise their children in life skills or help them pursue their own interests.
- Development – children won't learn what they need to know in their adult lives.
- Standardization – a child may not learn the same things a regular-schooling peer does unless an educational professional controls what material is covered. In a 2006 study of five- to ten-year-olds, unschooling children scored below traditionally schooled children in four of seven studied categories, and significantly below structured homeschoolers in all seven studied categories.
International status and statistics
In the United States, each state has the right to set its own requirements for homeschooling, so regulations vary by state.
 Some states require that the parents conducting homeschooling have a 
high school diploma or that they be capable of teaching. States might 
also require that certain subjects be taught or that participants are 
assessed on a regular basis. Additionally, some may require vaccinations
 or may prohibit homeschooling by parents with certain kinds of criminal
 records.

