In evolutionary psychology, the Cinderella effect is the phenomenon of higher incidence of different forms of child abuse and mistreatment by stepparents than by biological parents. It takes its name from the fairy tale character Cinderella,
which is about a girl who is mistreated by her stepsisters.
Evolutionary psychologists describe the effect as a byproduct of a bias
towards kin, and a conflict between reproductive partners of investing
in young that are unrelated to one partner. There is both supporting
evidence for this theory and criticism against it.
Background
In the early 1970s, a theory arose on the connection between stepparents and child maltreatment.
"In 1973, forensic psychiatrist P. D. Scott summarized information on a
sample of "fatal battered-baby cases" perpetrated in anger ... 15 of
the 29 killers – 52% – were stepfathers."
Although initially there was no analysis of this raw data, empirical
evidence has since been collected on what is now called the Cinderella
effect through official records, reports, and census.
For over 30 years, data has been collected regarding the validity
of the Cinderella effect, with a wealth of evidence indicating a direct
relationship between step-relationships and abuse. This evidence of child abuse and homicide
comes from a variety of sources including official reports of child
abuse, clinical data, victim reports, and official homicide data. Studies have concluded that "stepchildren in Canada, Great Britain, and the United States indeed incur greatly elevated risk of child maltreatment of various sorts, especially lethal beatings".
Powerful evidence in support of the Cinderella effect comes from
the finding that when abusive parents have both step and genetic
children, they generally spare their genetic children. In such families,
stepchildren were exclusively targeted 9 out of 10 times in one study
and in 19 of 22 in another.
In addition to displaying higher rates of negative behaviors (e.g.,
abuse) toward stepchildren, stepparents display fewer positive behaviors
toward stepchildren than do the genetic parents. For example, on
average, stepparents invest less in education, play with stepchildren
less, take stepchildren to the doctor less, etc.
This discrimination against stepchildren is unusual compared with abuse
statistics involving the overall population given "the following
additional facts: (1) when child abuse is detected, it is often found
that all the children in the home have been victimized; and (2)
stepchildren are almost always the eldest children in the home, whereas
the general ... tendency in families of uniform parentage is for the
youngest to be most frequent victims."
Evolutionary psychology theory
Evolutionary psychologists Martin Daly and Margo Wilson propose that the Cinderella effect is a direct consequence of the modern evolutionary theory of inclusive fitness, especially parental investment theory.
They argue that human child rearing is so prolonged and costly that "a
parental psychology shaped by natural selection is unlikely to be
indiscriminate".
According to them, "research concerning animal social behaviour provide
a rationale for expecting parents to be discriminative in their care
and affection, and more specifically, to discriminate in favour of their
own young".
Inclusive fitness theory proposes a selective criterion for the
evolution of social traits, where social behavior that is costly to an
individual organism can nevertheless emerge when there is a statistical
likelihood that significant benefits of that social behavior accrue to
(the survival and reproduction of) other organisms whom also carry the
social trait (most straightforwardly, accrue to close genetic
relatives). Under such conditions, a net overall increase in
reproduction of the social trait in future generations can result.
The initial presentation of inclusive fitness theory (in the mid
1960s) focused on making the mathematical case for the possibility of
social evolution, but also speculated about possible mechanisms whereby a
social trait could effectively achieve this necessary statistical
correlation between its likely bearers. Two possibilities were
considered: One that a social trait might reliably operate
straightforwardly via social context in species where genetic relatives
are usually concentrated in a local home area where they were born
('viscous populations'); The other, that genetic detection mechanisms
('supergenes') might emerge that go beyond statistical correlations, and
reliably detect actual genetic relatedness between the social
actors using direct 'kin recognition'. The relative place of these two
broad types of social mechanisms has been debated,
but many biologists consider 'kin recognition' to be an important
possible mechanism. Martin Daly and Margo Wilson follow this second
mechanism, and expect that parents "discriminate in favour of their own
young", i.e. their actual genetic relatives.
Daly and Wilson research
The
most abundant data on stepchild mistreatment has been collected and
interpreted by psychologists Martin Daly and Margo Wilson, who study
with an emphasis in Neuroscience and Behavior at McMaster University. Their first measure of the validity of the Cinderella effect was based on data from the American Humane Association (AHA), an archive of child abuse reports in the United States holding over twenty thousand reports.
These records led Wilson and Daly to conclude that "a child under three
years of age who lived with one genetic parent and one stepparent in
the United States in 1976 was about seven times more likely to become a
validated child-abuse case in the records than one who dwelt with two
genetic parents".
Their overall findings demonstrate that children residing with
stepparents have a higher risk of abuse even when other factors are
considered.
Explanation
All organisms face trade-offs as to how to invest their time, energy, risk, and other resources, so investment in one domain (e.g., parental investment) generally takes away from their ability to invest in other domains (e.g. mating effort, growth, or investment in other offspring).
Investment in non-genetic children therefore reduces an individual's
ability to invest in itself or its genetic children, without directly
bringing reproductive benefits. Thus, from an evolutionary biology perspective, one would not expect organisms to regularly and deliberately care for unrelated offspring.
Daly and Wilson point out that infanticide is an extreme form of biasing parental investment that is widely practiced in the animal world. For example, when an immigrant male lion enters a pride, it is not uncommon for him to kill the cubs fathered by other males. Since the pride can only provide support for a limited number of cubs to survive to adulthood, the killing of the cubs in competition with the new male's potential offspring increases the chances of his progeny surviving to maturity. In addition, the act of infanticide speeds the return to sexual receptivity in the females, allowing for the male to father his own offspring in a timelier manner.
These observations indicate that in the animal world, males employ
certain measures in order to ensure that parental investment is geared
specifically toward their own offspring.
Unlike the lion, however, humans in a stepparenting situation
face a more complicated tradeoff since they cannot completely disown
their partner's offspring from a previous relationship, as they would
risk losing sexual access to their partner and any chance of producing
potential offspring. Thus, according to Daly and Wilson, stepparental
investment can be viewed as mating effort to ensure the possibility of
future reproduction with the parent of their stepchild.
This mating effort hypothesis suggests that humans will tend to invest
more in their genetic offspring and invest just enough in their
stepchildren. It is from this theoretical framework that Daly and Wilson
argue that instances of child abuse towards non-biological offspring
should be more frequent than towards biological offspring.
One would therefore expect greater parental responsiveness
towards one's own offspring than towards unrelated children, and this
will result in more positive outcomes and fewer negative outcomes
towards one's own children than towards other children in which one is
expected to invest (i.e., stepchildren). "If child abuse is a behavioral
response influenced by natural selection, then it is more likely to
occur when there are reduced inclusive fitness payoffs owing to uncertain or low relatedness".
Owing to these adaptations from natural selection, child abuse is more
likely to be committed by stepparents than genetic parents—both are
expected to invest heavily in the children, but genetic parents will
have greater child-specific parental love that promotes positive
caretaking and inhibits maltreatment.
Daly and Wilson report that this parental love can explain why genetic offspring are more immune to lashing out by parents.
They assert that, "Child-specific parental love is the emotional
mechanism that permits people to tolerate—even to rejoice in—those long
years of expensive, unreciprocated parental investment".
They point to a study comparing natural father and stepfather families
as support for the notion that stepparents do not view their
stepchildren the same as their biological children, and likewise,
children do not view their stepparents the same as their biological
parents.
This study, based on a series of questionnaires which were then
subjected to statistical analyses, reports that children are less likely
to go to their stepfathers for guidance and that stepfathers rate their
stepchildren less positively than do natural fathers.
Daly and Wilson's reports on the overrepresentation of stepparents in child homicide and abuse statistics support the evolutionary principle of maximizing one's inclusive fitness, formalized under Hamilton's Rule, which helps to explain why humans will preferentially invest in close kin. Adoption statistics also substantiate this principle, in that non-kin adoptions represent a minority of worldwide adoptions. Research into the high adoption rates of Oceania shows that childlessness
is the most common reason for adopting, and that in the eleven
populations for which data was available, a large majority of adoptions
involved a relative with a coefficient of relatedness greater than or equal to 0.125 (e.g., genetic cousins).
It is also observed that parents with both biological and adopted
children bias the partitioning of their estates in favor of the
biological children, demonstrating again that parental behavior
corresponds to the principles of kin selection.
Methods
In
their 1985 Canadian sample, Daly and Wilson classify the frequencies of
different living arrangements (two natural parents, one natural parent,
one natural parent with one stepparent, or other) according to child
age. This was accomplished by administering a randomized telephone
survey.
Records of child abuse from children's aid organizations as well
as police reports on runaways and juvenile offenders were then used to
determine whether children from stepparental living situations were
overrepresented as abuse victims when compared to the demographic data
gathered from the telephone survey data. The results indicate that the
only living situation that has a significant correlation to increased
child abuse is one natural parent and one stepparent in the same
household. While rates of running away and crime were comparable for
children living with stepparents and children of single-parents, abuse
rates for children living with stepparents were much higher.
Daly and Wilson examined several potentially confounding variables in their research, including socioeconomic status,
family size, and maternal age at childbirth, however only minor
differences between natural-parent and stepparent families with respect
to these factors were found, indicating that none of these are major
contributing factors to the observed Cinderella effect.
Attachment theory
Evolutionary psychologists have also suggested that one of the causes of stepchild abuse may be the lack of a parental attachment bond that the mother would normally form with her own child.
An attachment bond will, in general, be more secure if formed before
the age of two, and adoption can often disrupt the development of this
bond. An infant who is fed by the primary parental figure, usually the
mother, and has the mother present during severely physically painful
events will have form a stronger parental attachment bond, and either a
consistent omission of the mother from this process or an alteration
between two people (the original mother and the adoptive mother) can
cause either an insecure attachment or disorganized attachment from the
parent to the child.
As a result, it is highly recommended by most psychologists that the
adoptive mother be present very early in the infant's life, preferably
immediately after its birth, in order to avoid attachment disruptions
and attachment disorders.
This theory cannot be a whole explanation for the Cinderella effect, as
psychological research has shown that secure attachment bonds can be
developed between a parent and adopted child, and the quality of the
relationship between parent and child will more often depend on the
child's pre-adoption experiences, such as length of time in social care
and previous trauma, more than characteristics of the parents.
Misunderstandings
It
is sometimes argued that this evolutionary psychological account does
not explain why the majority of stepparents do not abuse their partners'
children, or why a significant minority of genetic parents do abuse
their own offspring. However, their argument is based on a
misunderstanding: the evolutionary psychological account is that (all
else equal) parents will love their own children more than other
people's children – it does not argue that stepparents will "want" to
abuse their partner's children, or that genetic parenthood is absolute
proof against abuse. Under this account, stepparental care is seen as
"mating effort" towards the genetic parent, such that most interactions
between stepparent and stepchildren will be generally positive or at
least neutral, just usually not as positive as interactions between the
genetic parent and the child would be.
Supportive evidence
Strong
support for the Cinderella effect as described by Daly and Wilson comes
from a study of unintentional childhood fatal injuries in Australia.
Tooley et al. follow the argument of Daly and Wilson to extend the
Cinderella effect from cases of abuse to incidences of unintentional
fatalities. Children are not only vulnerable to abuse by their parents,
but they are also dependent on their parents for supervision and
protection from a variety of other harms.
Given that parental supervision is fundamentally correlated to
incidences of unintentional childhood injury as shown by Wadsworth et
al. and Peterson & Stern, Tooley et al. posit that selective
pressures would favor an inclination towards parental vigilance against
threats to offspring well-being.
Tooley et al. further argue that parental vigilance is not as highly
engaged in stepparents as genetic parents, therefore placing
stepchildren at greater risk for unintentional injury.
Based on data gathered from the Australia National Coroners'
Information System, stepchildren under five years of age are two to
fifteen times more likely to experience an unintentional fatal injury,
especially drowning, than genetic children.
Additionally, the study finds that the risks of unintentional fatal
injury are not significantly higher for genetic children in single
parent homes versus two-parent homes.
This difference suggests that removing one biological parent from the
home does not significantly increase risk to the children, but that
adding a nonbiological parent to the home results in a drastic increase
in the risk of unintentional fatal injury.
Despite the fact that adding a stepparent to the home increases the
available resources in terms of supervision in comparison to a
single-parent home, risk of unintentional fatal injury still
significantly rises.
This higher risk of injury for stepchildren can be attributed to the
fact that stepparents occupy the same supervisory role as a genetic
parent, yet they have a lower intrinsic commitment to protecting the
child and therefore are less likely to be adequately vigilant.
The authors conclude that the Cinderella effect applies not only to
purposeful abuse by stepparents, but is also relevant to explaining
increased rates of accidental fatalities among stepchildren.
Furthermore, a study of parental investment behaviors among American men living in Albuquerque, New Mexico,
reveals a trend of increasing financial expenditures on genetic
offspring in comparison to step-offspring, which also suggests that
parents are less inclined to preserve the well-being of stepchildren.
The study assesses paternal investment based on four measures: the
probability that a child attends college, the probability that the child
receives money for college, the total money spent on children, and the
amount of time per week spent with children.
Four different classifications of father-child relationships are
examined and compared, including fathers living with their genetic
children and stepfathers living with the stepchildren of their current
mates.
Though the study finds a clear trend of increasing investment in
genetic children, the data also shows that stepfathers do still invest
substantially in stepchildren.
The authors explain the parental investment exhibited by stepfathers
towards stepchildren as possibly motivated by the potential to improve
the quality or increase the duration of the man's relationship with the
stepchildren's mother. This studied corroborates the findings of Lynn White, that stepparents in general provide less social support to stepchildren than their genetic children.
Though the general trend of the data from this study supports the
Cinderella effect, Anderson and colleagues note that the observed
differences between investment in children and stepchildren might be
slightly reduced by a few confounding factors. For example, the authors point out that stepparenting is a self-selective
process, and that when all else is equal, men who bond with unrelated
children are more likely to become stepfathers, a factor that is likely
to be a confounding variable in efforts to study the Cinderella effect. Anderson and colleagues also conducted a similar study of Xhosa students in South Africa
that analyzes the same four classifications of adult-child
relationships, and this study offers similar results to those observed
among men in Albuquerque.
Additionally, a study of Hadza foragers in Tanzania by Marlowe also finds evidence of decreased care provided by men to stepchildren when compared with genetic children. The author uses the Mann-Whitney U-tests
to evaluate most of the observed differences in care exhibited towards
children and stepchildren, and finds that Hadza men spend less time with
(U=96), communicate less with (U=94.5), nurture less, and never play
with their stepchildren.
Marlowe further argues that any care that is provided towards
stepchildren is likely attributable to the man's mating efforts and not
parental interest in the well-being of the stepchildren.
In further support of the Cinderella effect as elaborated by Daly and Wilson, a study conducted in a rural village in Trinidad
demonstrates that in households containing both genetic children and
stepchildren, fathers devote approximately twice as much time to
interaction with genetic offspring in comparison to stepchildren.
Additionally, this study finds that the duration of the relationship
between the stepfather and stepchildren is negatively correlated with
the relative proportion of interaction time and positively correlated
with the relative proportion of antagonistic interactions between the
two.
As a proportion of total time spent interacting with genetic and
stepchildren, stepfathers are shown to have approximately 75 percent
more antagonistic interactions with stepchildren.
In this study, antagonistic interactions are defined as involving
physical or verbal combat or an expression of injury. This includes, for
example, spanking, screaming, crying, and arguing. The duration of the
relationship between genetic fathers and children shows a positive
correlation with both relative proportion of interaction time and
antagonistic interaction.
The author argues that these results show that in terms of time
invested, men favor their children over stepchildren, and this
preference is not attributable to the duration of the adult-child
relationship, a factor which is sometimes believed to be a confounding
variable in the Cinderella effect.
Though this study does claim a significant increase in antagonistic
behavior between stepparents and stepchildren and therefore supports the
Cinderella effect, it also notes that only six percent of all the
observed parent-child interactions were considered antagonistic, and
that the researchers never noticed any blatant physical child abuse.
Criticism
David Buller
Philosopher of science David Buller, as a part of his general critique of evolutionary psychology has reviewed Daly and Wilson's data. He argues that evolutionary psychology (EP) mistakenly attempts to discover human psychological adaptations
rather than "the evolutionary causes of psychological traits." Buller
also argues that Daly and Wilson's 1985 Canadian sample included cases
of sexual abuse as well as cases of unintentional omission, such as not
buckling a child's seatbelt in the car. Buller asserts that
unintentional omission does not fall under the realm of dangerous acts,
and rather should be designated "maltreatment". He argues that since
sexual abuse is not often accompanied by physical abuse, it is
unreasonable to assume that it is motivated by the same kind of
psychological mechanism as child homicide. Buller also points out that
the conclusion that non-biological parents are more likely to abuse
children is contradicted by the fact that even if the rate of abuse
among stepparents was disproportionate, most child abuse is in fact
committed by biological parents, and that the lowest rate of child abuse
is found among adoptive parents.
Daly and Wilson respond to Buller's criticism by stating that Buller
confuses the empirical statistical findings, which define the Cinderella
effect, with the proposed theoretical framework, which offers an
evolutionary explanation for the data.
Buller also argues that Daly and Wilson's findings are inherently
biased since they use data from official documents, and the officials
collecting that data are trained to take special notice of stepparents
versus biological parents.
Furthermore, Buller states that since Daly and Wilson rely on official
reports (such as death certificates) for their data, and that this data
is inherently biased against stepparents. He cites a Colorado
study, in which it was found that maltreatment fatalities were more
likely to be correctly reported on death certificates when an unrelated
individual was the perpetrator rather than when a parent was the
perpetrator, suggesting that the data is empirically skewed to support
the Cinderella effect.
According to this study, by Crume et al., when the perpetrator of the
murder was a parent, maltreatment was correctly noted on the death
certificate only 46 percent of the time. Furthermore, they found that
when the perpetrator was an "Other unrelated (including boyfriend)"
individual, maltreatment was reported on the death certificate 86
percent of the time, significantly higher than for parents.
Although these statistics seem to provide evidence of bias against
stepparents, further review of the data undermines this conclusion. As
Crume et al. and Daly and Wilson note, maltreatment was only likely to
be reported on the death certificates 47 percent of the time in the case
of "Other relatives (including step-parents)," which represents a
marginal increase from the amount of parental maltreatment.
Therefore, as Daly and Wilson respond to Buller's critique, this does
not seem to be a significant source of error in studying the Cinderella
effect and does not provide evidence for inherent bias in their data.
Temrin et al. Sweden study
The findings of Daly and Wilson have been called into question by one study of child homicides in Sweden
between 1975 and 1995, which found that children living in households
with a non-genetic parent were not at an increased risk of homicide when
compared to children living with both genetic parents. The study,
published in 2000 and conducted by Temrin and colleagues argued that
when Daly and Wilson classified homicides according to family situation,
they did not account for the genetic relatedness of the parent who
actually committed the crime. In the Swedish sample, in two out of the
seven homicides with a genetic and non-genetic parent, the offender was
actually the genetic parent and thus these homicides do not support Daly
and Wilson's definition of the Cinderella effect.
Daly and Wilson attribute the contrasting findings of the Swedish
study to an analytical oversight. Temrin and colleagues neglect to
consider the fact that the proportion of children in living situations
with a stepparent is not constant for all child age groups, but rather
increases with age. After correcting for age differences, the Swedish
data set produces results in accordance with the previous findings of
Daly and Wilson. The Swedish sample does show, however, decreased risk
to children living with a stepparent compared to the North American
samples collected by Daly and Wilson, suggesting that there is some
degree of cross-cultural variation in the Cinderella effect.
Alternative hypotheses
It has been noted by multiple researchers that child abuse is an intricate issue and is affected by other factors.
Daly and Wilson state, however, that even if evolutionary psychology
cannot account for every instance of stepparental abuse, this does not
invalidate their empirical findings.
Burgess and Drais propose that child maltreatment is too complex
to be explained fully by genetic relatedness alone and cite other
reasons for child maltreatment, such as social factors, ecological
factors and child traits such as disability and age. However, they also note that these traits are simply indicative, and do not inevitably lead to child maltreatment.
Temrin and colleagues also suggest that there may be other factors
involved with child homicide, such as prior convictions, drug abuse
problems, lost custody battles and mental health problems.
In 1984, Giles-Sims and David Finkelhor
categorized and evaluated five possible hypotheses that could explain
the Cinderella effect: "social-evolutionary theory", "normative theory",
"stress theory", "selection factors", and "resource theory". The
social-evolutionary theory is based on the proposal that non-genetically
related parents will invest less in costly parental duties, due to the
fact that their genes are not being passed on by that individual. The
normative theory proposes that, due to genetic repercussions, incest
among genetically related individuals is a widespread taboo and would
thus be less common among biological relatives. They propose that incest
among stepfamilies would be less taboo, since there is no risk of
genetic degradation. The stress theory proposes that increased
stressors, which are inherently more common among stepfamilies, cause an
increased risk of abuse. The selection factors theory proposes that
individuals who are likely to be stepparents (divorcees) are likely to
be inherently more violent due to emotional disturbances, aggressive
impulses, and self-esteem issues. Due to this, stepparents as a group
would have a higher proportion of individuals with violent-prone
characteristics, which would suggest that the abuse is happening due to
personality factors, rather than the stepparental relationship directly.
Finally, according to resource theory, individuals who contribute
resources are granted authority, while individuals that lack resources
are denied authority and more likely to resort to violence to obtain
authority. It is therefore hypothesized that stepparents who are able to
contribute resources to a family and have those resources be accepted
by the family are less likely to be abusive. However, this hypothesis
had yet to be tested directly on stepfamilies. This paper of Giles-Sims and Finkelhor predates however practically all empirical studies on the Cinderella effect.
Ethical issues
Discussing
the implications of this line of research, Australian psychologist Greg
Tooley, author of a 2006 study confirming the existence of the effect, confessed that "it is certainly difficult to talk about because it is such a hot issue".